It doesn't matter what they say...

Sometimes it happens that people say certain things to you, in hatred anger or jealousy it can be abusive or it can be a direct comment on something that has nothing to do with reality.

We often tend to get perturbed and take such comments personally and spoil our mood for few days or maybe few weeks or months. As it is not easy to figure out what is the root cause of such behaviour and rather we end up blaming ourselves or or believing in what we have heard or read.

How someone treats you or talks to you is a reflection of their mental well being and not you, because no one can ever know who you really are other than yourself, so do not ever take their words personally rather think in the direction of what is wrong with them and why they are behaving in this way or using such words.

If you begin to understand this you will reduce half of your pain first and then once you get the reason as to why the person is abusive or commenting/sarcastic you will be able to get yourself free from what they utter instead of taking it personally or drooling over it.

Basically we have to understand how psychology works.

If someone has a perceived threat from you or they are afraid of you or insecure or maybe jealous as they may as they feel that you can ruin their plans..... that is exactly when the try to sabotage your peace of mind or disturb your mental space. Now that you understand this please be aware and analyse first before taking anything to heart and then forgive them for this

behaviour but yes never forget the outburst of their behaviour and be careful with such people as somewhere they are mentally unwell.

Also be careful with your interaction with them and choose your words wisely