Selfish and Self Love

Sometimes people may think that you are being selfish - it doesn't matter what they think, what really matters is that you understand where you need to be and what you need to do. Always remember that you are not supposed to please everybody around you all the time it's OK to say a big "NO" for stuff which is not in line with your priorities.

Self love is doing things which are actually good for you, sometimes it is OK to cut off from a certain place or say no to people or no to certain things for which you are not ok with because they are not in line with what you want.

No matter how hard you try you cannot make everyone happy with everything you do so if people don't understand what you are upto and why your doing things in a certain way despite of explaining it to them it's OK to take a chill pill and let them misunderstand.

You don't need to be perturbed about their misunderstanding cause you did your part explaining things to them after that if they don't understand leave them where they are and continue doing YOUR THING.

Honestly I feel there is no harm in being selfish as Osho also rightly said people who are selfish are the ones who actually think about themselves first and thinking about you first is a good thing to do so, do not ever think that it's a bad thing about thinking yourself. A person who cannot love himself fully cannot do anything for others in this world😒 so be selfish love yourself 👍and do do what is best for you always irrespective of what others think about you and that doesn't mean that you stop being sharing, caring, understanding and being kind.

Communicate effectively and act as per your priorities and values.

Be selfish and Love yourself with pride.